To engage with an older guy is to peek inside a different point-of-view on life.So, now that I've glorified older men enough (don't worry, young, 20-something lads, your day will come…Remember that we are the largest free online dating service, so you will never have to pay a dime to meet your soulmate. Id say its not illegal, its not immoral and if the 18 year old is mature for her age then its ok. I bet you jokers spend all day waiting for the chance to insult someones character. You think they pick on you, because you don't read enough of the rest of the forums. A few women are fairly mature at 18, but almost ALL of them THINK they are "more mature than their peers", so you can't go by what they say, and usually not by how they act. One of the biggest problems with that particular age gap, is that lots of mid-twenties people are ready to get serious, both emotionally, and practically.So I had a birthday today and I realized I'm still a young adult but I'm really on the verge of just what I would call an "adult". But.....there is a world of difference betwenn 18 and 25. But almost no 18 year olds are even remotely ready, again, even though most of them think they are.What about if your 10-year-old looks at you and says, "I'm ready to date, Dad"? There is so much a 12-year-old can teach a 10-year-old -- advanced coloring, advanced texting, and so many other important life skills. You're 20 years old and, under this rule, you can date a 17-year-old. There you are in college, and you get to go back to high school again to find a girlfriend.There was several years between my parents and they were married for 34 years before my dad passed away but things have changed so much in the past 20 years.
Hopefully you will all have fun meeting singles and try out this online dating thing... Now think what you were doing and what you were "thinking" and "planning" when YOU were 18. However your interest in an 18 year old at this point raises a hell of a lot more questions than it answers, just based on some of the other stuff you said. This is referring to the last 2 posters but why do I always seem to get the jerks on my posts? Some of these forum folks are just dying to criticize someone. No one cares about your unsolicited assessment of character The jerks will show up on any post. College guys at 25 are too old for high school gals of any age.
I just feel jn todays society when a man of this age will not even consider a woman his age and focusen in young girls is not right maybe Im wrong but I am a mother and Id be very upset if my 18 year old came in with a man my age. However there is a 15 year age gap between me and my husband.
My mom is only 4 years older than him so looking at that perspective I don't know. Not all guys that are older than the female are total pervs though some are, just like not all young women are immature, some are more mature for their age.
"Are you going online and using the advanced search feature to look for 18 years olds, and only 18 year olds? That's only rolling back the calendar a little bit; two years.
Are you hanging out at high schools on the hood of your trans am at 3 pm asking every girl that walks by "what up..18?